How to Manifest a Boyfriend: A Guide to Love

Ladies, I speak from experience. There was a time in my life when I was left alone with a broken heart. I thought that I would be forever alone and never find the perfect match for myself. Then I gave manifesting a chance, and what followed is a fairytale. In this article I will teach you how to manifest a boyfriend. You will learn how to love yourself, overcome limiting beliefs, write positive affirmations that work, and much more.

What is Manifestation?

According to the universal law of attraction, like attracts like. This means that positive energy brings good things in your life, and negative thoughts bring bad things in your life.

Manifestation is based on the law of attraction. It is the process of concentrating our minds on positive outcomes in order to attract them into our lives.

You can use the manifestation process for anything. The boyfriend of your dreams and a soul mate, a job, dream life, or abundance. Literally, anything good you want and desire in life.

There are a few simple steps to manifest a boyfriend.

Step 1. Understand What You Want in A Relationship

Understand Your Motivations

Start with looking deeper into your true self. Why do you want to have a boyfriend? Is it because you want to build a family? Or maybe your family is pressuring you? Or maybe you just want someone next to you who will make you feel special?

This key question needs to be answered first. Only after that, we can move on to the next steps.


If you are struggling with understanding your motivations, meditation can be of great help.

Meditation is a relaxed but mindful practice that was born in India around 5,000 BC. Since then, meditation has been used for understanding the sacred and mystical forces of life.

In the context of manifestation, meditation can help you understand your true desires by clearing your mind and getting rid of negative thoughts.

Describe Your Ideal Partner

The universe can only give you something you specifically asked for. If the universe does not know what you want, it will not be able to give that to you.

Because of this, the start of every manifestation journey is to be crystal clear on what it is that you want.

Think of what you want to see in your dream partner, and what qualities he has. What is his appearance? Or does it even matter to you as much as his personality? Maybe you want him to have a specific profession? Or to live in a particular city? How does he treat you?

Try to think of all the qualities you want him to have. The deeper you go the better results you will have. Take your time and think thoroughly.

Step 2. Love Yourself First

Before diving into manifesting a boyfriend, make sure to have a healthy relationship towards yourself.

Self-love is the beginning for all positive changes in our life. If you will not love and fully accept yourself it will be difficult for another person to love and accept you.

Practicing Self-Love and Self-Care

Self-care and self-love are the foundation of manifesting a boyfriend.
Practice self-care and self-love to build a solid foundation for you relationship.

You should be full of positive energy to manifest a boyfriend. Take care of yourself and practice self-love in your daily life.

To practice self-love, do things that bring you joy and give you positive thoughts and lots of energy. Maybe it is a dance class or yoga. Maybe you would like to learn how to play the piano or cello. Make sure you are surrounded by positive energy and good friends.

Practicing self-care is about taking care of the immediate needs of your soul and body. Maybe you were working a lot and did not have a chance to eat healthy or have a good sleep. Address these things first. Taking care of yourself is the foundation of your positive energy.

It’s important to remember that practicing self-love and self-care does not mean that you should be selfish. Make sure to also consider the needs of your loved ones.

Step 3. Overcome Limiting Beliefs and Negativity

I really think that limiting beliefs can be a true barrier to building a healthy relationship.

All of us have some limiting beliefs. Most of the time our limiting beliefs come from other people and have nothing to do with reality.

We can choose not to have limiting beliefs in our subconscious. You should program your mind to work for you and not against you. Here is a two step method you can use to overcome your negative beliefs and replace them with positive statements.

Identifying Limiting Beliefs

So first of all we need to identify our limiting beliefs about romantic relationships, love life, and finding your soul mate.

Then you will have to write all of your self-limiting beliefs (you can use a manifestation journal) and, if you can, where you got them from.

For example:

“I don’t deserve to be loved” – said my ex-boyfriend

“It will be difficult to find a husband with my personality” – said my mom when I didn’t listen to her as a child

“I am not beautiful enough” – took it from social media with photoshopped faces.

Replacing Negativity with Positivity

The next step is to get rid of all of the negative energy that comes from those self limiting beliefs.

Let’s write down new positive phrases instead.

For example:

“I am worthy and deserve to love and to be loved”

“My personality attracts many potential partners”

“I am beautiful and unique”

This simple manifestation practice will help you to be more confident and to manifest your ideal relationship.

Step 4. Manifest Your Ideal Boyfriend

Visualization and affirmations are powerful tools to manifest a specific person. Both of them work well in getting a boyfriend or any other person that you want to manifest in your life.

Visualize the Relationship

Imagine your ideal relationship in everyday life. Try to feel like you already have it, like you already enjoy it. You can picture all the qualities that your perfect match has… his eyes, hair… imagine how you hold hands, cuddle, kiss… do you like it? Does it give you goosebumps or positive feelings? If yes, you are doing it right.

Write Love Affirmations

Affirmations are short positive sentences that are used to overcome negative thoughts and build confidence. To use this method, write short sentence about love in the present tense.

Pretend as if you already have the relationship of your dreams:

Examples of love affirmations.
Writing positive love affirmations is one of the best methods to manifest a boyfriend.

To learn how to make your own affirmations tailored to your wishes, check our recent article on abundance affirmations.

Step 5. Take Action and Look for Opportunities

You are not likely to stumble upon your future boyfriend in your own apartment. It’s important to take supportive action to help the law of attraction work its magic.

Start with simple things like registering yourself in a dating app and telling your friends that you are open for relationships. Spread the positive energy around you. Go out with your friends, and be open to the opportunities that come by. If a guy approaches trying to help you with your heavy bags, do not turn your back on him. You never know where you can meet your ideal boyfriend.

If you will combine manifestation with taking action you will attract the best loving relationship you want. Trust the universe and the right person will come to your life.

Step 6. Let Go and Trust the Process

To manifest love we must let go and trust that the universe has it all under control.

Remember ladies! You should do your best to manifest a boyfriend but no be obsessed with it. If you love and cherish yourself, take supporting action, and let the universe handle the rest, it’s possible to manifest a boyfriend and find the best loving relationship of your dreams. You don’t need to control every small detail.

Why Should You Manifest a Boyfriend

I mean… why shouldn’t you?

If you have an opportunity to influence your life why shouldn’t you take that opportunity? If manifesting a boyfriend will lead you to the right person and will gift you the best loving relationship ever, why not give it a try?

Anyways, it is better to act than to sit and complain. Plus, as an added benefit on top of the boyfriend of your dreams, you will gain confidence and start to love and accept yourself fully.

How Long Does it Take to Manifest a Boyfriend

It could take a few weeks or several months. Ultimately it depends on your list of requirements and your determination.

Things to Remember

I really hope that this article will help you to find your true love and soul mate, and to stay in a healthy and loving relationship.

Remember that manifesting a relationship and a boyfriend is more about you than other people. Follow the steps outlined in this article and believe in what you do.

Stay positive, take supportive action, and the love of your life will come to you sooner than you think.

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